thee waythe way that you addressed me way demeaning, and not kind, and you have the right to voice all the issues you want, and in fact i want you to so i can correct them , but i want to be spoken to with respect. not to send

angry texts and talk down to me. i dont deserve to come home to that.

in the long run, things will be much ,more peaseful -peaceful if we all 

treat each other at least cordially, and i didnt even get that treatment

yesterday, and if nothing else, thats at least how i expect to be treated.

this isnt about "TElling you how to react to things" as you said this 

morning. this is me telling you that i want and deserve respect, and will

not settle for verbal abuse.